To elaborate upon the popping of that bubble

that i distilled with my poem "A Ladies Man:", a ladies man essentially treats no new woman with wonderment. He knows her already, he's been with so many that he doesn't have to explore your body to please you and thus, one can say, he is not nearly as affectionate or interested as a guy who hasn't had so many opportunities to please a woman. Though a nice gy, a plain guy, whatever, may fail or not appease a woman as often, he is trying desperately to learn how to...and he is doing so with the woman of his eye, the apple of his heart. It is this distinction that I feel women overlook when they take an interest in the opposite sex. ANd I fear we gentlemen will have no way to fight it. But that is that. I won't change the way I love or approach a relationship just because I am unsuccessful when trying to court females that would much rather be led and persuaded than courted.